daddy-o

Posted on March 15, 2007

My husband's daddy instinct kicked in.

I have often wondered how Ramil would be as a daddy. Within a week of being one, he has already exceeded my expectations. Having grown up with very little presence of my papa, my idea of being a father is very limited. Time with my papa being lacking during my growing up years, it was what I required of Ramil. So far, he has given more than what I have asked for.

Although of course, my quickly acquired skills at baby duties are no match to his, he has shown more than an acceptable level at them. As early as now, Mateo knows and recognizes not only the mama but also the papa. If Mateo would sometimes make a smacking sound with his mouth whenever he sees me, as if saying milk, he would sometimes wave his arms wildly whenever he sees Ramil, as if saying carry me and rock me. Ramil has done his share of diaper changing, feeding, and trying to put Mateo to sleep. During our first few days of parenthood, when things were more than challenging because of all the adjustment and hormones, I've told him more than once that I am very happy and grateful to be doing this with him.

As early as now, I can see a father I would have loved to have and I know Mateo agrees with me.

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