Some people around us have been telling Ramil and me to go abroad and work there. Although it was an option for us before we got married, right now it’s just not among our options. We’ve heard of many family and friends who’ve landed good healthcare jobs, one of the most popular jobs for Filipinos abroad. We also know of some colleagues who’ve chosen to practice teaching abroad. There are many different reasons why they would pursue their careers in another country but for Ramil and me, our small family is our priority. Although it would surely be financially beneficial for us, we’re more concerned with our general welfare and family dynamics. Having grown up with a father who works abroad, I know how important it is to have both parents present while growing up. I’m pretty sure my father missed us a lot and we also missed him too. Ramil and I just don’t want to miss anything in Mateo’s life. There’s more to life than earning big money.